I told my family that I am pregnant. I am already 12 weeks and finally sent an ecard. I am such a weenie. I wish I felt that I could tell them things without the certain backlash that I always get. A simple, Congradulations... would be AWESOME! We are screening our calls for a day or two and as it is we will probably get called cowards, nuts, and asked all the irritating questions like, "are you sure you can afford another baby?" , "You have no support where you are, who is going to take care of the kids while you are in the hospital?", "What about health insurance?"
They say they ask because they care. I still don't think so. If they cared about my feelings they wouldn't ask me such probing questions when I still have 200 days left to think about them.